Friday, 15 December 2017


Hello world and welcome everyone to the blog that lifts us up when the chips of life are down!

You probably are reading this post now because you are going through a hard and difficult (wilderness season) period in your life presently and  not only have you done your human best to overcome and get of such unwanted ugly situation, but you have also prayed, fasted, sowed seeds, done midnight prayers, sought additional intercessory prayers from other anointed servants of God done crazy sacrifices of all sorts etc and nothing seems to be changing or getting better at all.

Well guess what? Every genuine child of God that He loves and is destined to be great has also been there!

Remember the bible says that God corrects the child that He loves and for every pain there must be corresponding gain for a faithful believer who waits patiently on Him.

Thursday, 14 December 2017


Hi Everyone and welcome once again after so long a time. Well we have barely seventeen days to the end of this year and still very many of us have unmet expectations and unfulfilled desires we hoped that this year 2017 would fill. For many as well, the demonic spirit called DESPERATION has already set in as they now seek any possible and even impossible way to make sure they achieve their aim no matter the cost, and for some others they have just totally given up hope on this year entirely and now they await the coming new year to start afresh and restrategise. But for us the children of God who called by a promise into an eternal inheritance, not only is the year not over yet, we still have faith and wait on God for a last minute miracle (otherwise called the 11th hour testimony) and NO, we have refused to give the devil any chance to steal our peace with desperation. WE ONLY WAIT ON OUR GOD AND WE KNOW WE SHALL NOT BE ASHAMED!

Thursday, 30 November 2017


Happy new month everyone and welcome to the last month in the year 2017. If I may ask, how has the year been to you generally and your loved ones. Most especially how many of your 2017's new year goals, plans, resolution and expectations were you able to achieve or have been so far materialised? And better still, as the year gradually draws the curtain, how ready are you for the festive season and the christmas celebrations as they approach closely? Well for me and my immediate family, we are in thanksgiving mood as This our Good God has been soooo good and merciful to us. I mean which one do I mention and leave the other. Infact God has just been faithful! But the real question is how many of us are truly ready for christmas (xmas) in the sense of being prepared to check and balance out the year 2017 and proceed on to the new year of 2018?

Monday, 27 November 2017


Hello everyone and welcome back to me after so long a time from the blog. Yesterday, I read an article on a Nigerian-based popular facebook group Females-In-Nigeria about a lady who said she had been motivated by the decision and action of Nollywood/Ghallywood actress Yvonne Nelson who currently posted prenatal pictures of herself and her huge baby bump in announcement of the fact that she was expecting a baby soon. So this reader of the group on facebook said that she was almost hitting her forties and she was neither married nor was there any 'toaster' (suitor) in sight. Hence her "loneliness" despite her financial success and she didn't want to get aged without  having a child to call her own. However, she was having double thoughts about because she is a christian and knew that doing that was going contrary to the Word of God on marriage and family life. Hence the post as she was seeking the opinion of fellow Christians.In that very post I also read comments of other readers who opined that she should go ahead and do whatever she thinks would make her happy (very shallow), while others who claimed to be Christians did their best to find scriptural backing and justification for her to go ahead and have a child whether or not she was married as no husband was coming.

Thursday, 16 November 2017

Seven Things I Don't Share and You Shouldn't Too.

I'm not a selfish person and this particular post is not intended to make me look like one. However, maturity, wisdom and the rules of personal hygiene demands that there are just certain things (and of course people) in life that one isn't supposed to share no matter what and no matter whom. So by strict principles I don't share these things and person (s) and no one should share any of these either...

Monday, 13 November 2017

My first YouTube Video is Here!...With my baby in itπŸ‘Ά

Hey guys!

Welcome and happy new week to you all.

Well... I shot my first Youtube video today live from my bedroom ✌πŸ˜‰πŸ˜Š; and my little son was in it (he was seeking attention). So please kindly click, watch and enjoy Watch HERE!...

Also, don't forget to subscribe to my YouTube Channel HERE!


Friday, 10 November 2017


I was recently on one of my social media platforms when I read a post from someone who said she wanted to leave her marriage because the love in her marriage between she and her husband had turned cold and she felt trapped! I was instantly concerned because that meant that the lady in question had an unrealistic opinion and view of marriage. Truth be told, there are several times that will arise in a wonderful and healthy marriage (and indeed all marriages) where one would feel lost, unloved and maybe used, but that's no reason to condemn the marriage and end it just like that...afterall we said for better for worse isn't it? The yardstick however should be loving each other with the example that Christ has shown us as christians. moreso, we are to understand that no one except God can make you happy 100% nor can anyone meet all of your needs except God. More so, both the married and singles (especially those aspiring to be married someday must always remember that just because you temporarily 'feel' unloved by your spouse or even children, should you think of leaving your marriage or begin practicing infidelity of any kind using that as an excuse. Never! Besides, feelings and emotions  are fickle and should never be taken too seriously especially in marriage or relationships.

Thursday, 9 November 2017


For most of us graduates especially those of us that studied "powerful" courses like Law and Medicine in school, we come out dreaming of landing a mouth-watery job that will pay us six figures from the very start and lead us through a life of financial wealth and freedom... UNTIL WE ARE AWAKENED BY THE REALITY THAT THAT'S A LIE AND IT HARDLY EVER HAPPENS. We first of all, plunge ourselves to a life of financial slavery in the name of a white collar job that keep us on our toes 8am-5pm or even more than that all for a meagre financial pay (we sometimes don't get or is long delayed) called SALARY which is in itself an insult to all your academic qualification and years in school. Well I've been there and done that as well and found out that asides that job I have no life of my own outside of it. To make matters worse, the so-called 'salary' does not meet even up to half of my personal monthly needs; and I wasn't even married then so had no family responsibilities of my own to bother with. It was this harsh realisation that prompted me to start searching all manner of sources both online and offline for a side hustle or PLAN B business to augment the so-called salary I was receiving.

Sunday, 5 November 2017


This is a younger version of me and this picture was taken about ten years ago (or almost close to that). I was just about hitting my twenties or had just arrived them so I obviously felt like my world was just starting and was at my feet (By the grace of God, it still is, only that life and reality has fine tuned that freelance thought a bit), so I had a plethora of bubbling and buzzing thoughts going on. I had just attained a title my dad used to call "young woman" and it came with a level of independence from them and I was excited about it because that meant I didn't have to check up with mum and dad for every of my personal action and decision even though I was still fully financially dependent on them at the time. However, by the grace of God, I became conscious of my christian walk and faith with God early on in life and that has never departed from me till date (and never will). That great grace gave me bountiful godly and earthly wisdom that saw me through that vulnerable and fragile stage of my life and helped shaped most part of my adult life now into the woman I am now. These important decisions that I took early on in life are what I intend sharing with us today that our younger readers may share and learn from.

Saturday, 4 November 2017


Some few years ago, the world woke up to the devastating news of the tragic death of a world renowned Man of God Myles Monroe who died in a plane crash alongside his wife and daughter on their way to preach and do God's work, leaving only behind a son. This news sent shockers down the spine of many believers and questions as to why God allowed it to happen. Here in Nigeria also, in the year 2005, Christians woke up to sad news that a well known lady preacher Pastor Bimbo Odukoya was among several unfortunate others who died in an air disaster while on her way to minister at one of the Nigerian university campuses. As if that wasn't enough Christians also woke up to the news that the pastoral convoy of Papa Ayo Oritsejafor the one time president of the Christian Association of Nigeria (CAN) suffered a fatal motor accident and claiming the lives of two of his pastoral team (a man and a woman) both of which were married with children. Similarly two years and five months ago, I suffered the grief of the loss of my father Late (Mr) Sylvester Amaechi Offor after a seven month protracted battle with pancreatic cancer, before my very eyes precisely in the month of June 2015. That loss made me totally lost as an individual for a while as I was at a point of no return and I had several questions for God, many of which are still unanswered and that shook my faith in God greatly to its foundation. It took God intervening and stopping me in my tracks by sending a servant of His and a man of God my way (who later became my husband today).
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