Wednesday, 11 October 2017
Commitment is more than the presence of a ring
Some don't want the responsibilities and challenges that comes with being a husband or wife and later on...parents. Being married means being accountable, responsible, tolerant, patient, forgiving and forbearing and there are people who being naturally selfish don't want to be bothered with these principles and qualities at all. You can't be married and still want to live your life like a free lancing single and expect your marriage and possibly your entire life not to run into a crisis situation eventually. Marriage means dedication to duty and unshakable daily commitment whether as a husband or as a wife. Both parties must make major adjustments, sacrifices and compromises to their marital union and new family for it to grow and work. Anyone with selfish inclinations is better off not getting married in order to avoid serious catastrophes of life in the future.
Now if as a single, you hope to get hitched someday, it is time to ask yourself if you are truly ready, qualified and prepred for the commitment of marriage and not being bothered with just bearing the title and wearing an expensive ring.