Tuesday, 17 October 2017
THE MAMA'S BOY SYNDROME (MBS)
it's not hard to tell why women hate mama's boys. We love matured, independent men. Men who have severed the umbilical cord between them and their mama without being disrespectful or abandoning her. Men who can stand up and chase their 10000 in life without their mama calling the shots. Men who can take charge of every part of their lives from their diet, to their dress sense, personal hygiene, careers, social lives and most importantly their private lives without their mama having to be consulted every time or blowing the whistle or either her choice, her approval or her disapproval. Men whose relationships and marriage aren't remotely controlled by their mamas who will make sure their wives or fiances feel like the second fiddle in the lives of their sons. Men who don't put their mamas in the know with every minute detail of their lives. The worst if he makes it a habit to always check with her before major family decisions are made because he thinks her opinions matter most, or he must always compare every single action or inaction taken by his wife or fiance with that of his mother's.
Like it or not, being mama-bonded is actually a sign of weakness to a man, especially when he feels like (and ends up) fulfilling mama's every wish especially the unreasonable and self-destructives ones.
These type of men fail to understand that in their mother's mind, their wives or fiances are a direct threat or rival to the wield of superior authority they command over your entire life, hence they feel the need to oppress, frustrate, subdue and drive them into total submission to them, so as not to loose the control and attention they selfishly enjoy. Tell me, who would love that?